ThankfulGarry

  Dear You ,   I know whats going on !! I am there , struggling with you , trying to understand what happened and why happened. I know they snapped back at you , when At work ,you mentioned that your project is getting impacted when they didnt finish their work .   Or   you are bad person in the family because you are asking your spouse to do something twice a day for past three months and they are not doing it and called that out. Only solution is Dont call out . Dont raise the risk . Sit quitely let the ship sink. Then let everyone shout for help , If you are in position to do something , and you want to do something , please do that , and if not , just walk away !! So simple to mention and follow for other people but I know its not for you . I know you so well ! I know you cant leave,   you cant abandon. I know how bad you are   in letting go . I know how easy for others to disrespect your boundaries and still you will be able to do nothing. I ...

Dear You ,  I know you are tired yet going on , Taking extra pressure to fulfil your fantasy ! Fantasy of being perfect. Sometimes when you achieved its felt nice , when someone praised you at work and at home , it seems miraculous, you became so addictive to this . Feeling of doing and managing things perfectly , getting praised for that and then being happy , many hormones get triggered and you felt the bliss.  Slowly steadily you failed to understand when your addiction of seeming happy , pretending to be living dream life , having perfect family, faking work life balance, getting praised for all the work you do at home and at office became an added PRESSURE !!  Everyone wanted you to be around and work for them so they can chill. You being you thought that you are actually adding value , thriving and excelling , continued to be miss Perfect. Completing work on time, Doing all the house hold chores yourself, being working Parent who is so capable of handling everything...